My grandather
tried to teach me
how to tie
a bowline.
It’s a knot.
I couldn’t do it.
My father taught me
to tie my shoes
on the very first try.
Bragged about it.
Told my Mom.
“On the very first try.”
Couldn’t get over it.
But Gramps gave up.
Stood there with his Pall Mall
cigarette in that carved ivory
holder and shook his head.
“Let go in and see what Grandma
has for lunch,” he said.
A few days ago,
sitting at my desk
I got it. Put a piece of string
through the handle
on the drawer and with
two quick turns made my
first bowline. Father
and Grandfather
are gone now,
Grandmas too on both sides,
but I got my bowline.
They got it too.
Ties bind forever.
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